Frequently Asked Questions

What is a collab?

A collab (short for "collaboration") is an act of doing something together. In the entertainment industry, a collab often means creating content with another person.

What Is Collab Dates?

CollabDates is a community of spicy content creators. It allows members to meet fellow creators and other people in the industry, to network, and to arrange collabs. The quickest way to meet people is online on our website. We also organize offline events and parties that are great for networking.

What types of collabs can I do?

The types of collabs you can do are only limited by your imagination and the willingness of your collab partner.* It can be as simple as a post on social media or an appearance at an event, creating spicy content, and more. Just make sure to be specific and discuss all the details with your collab partner.

Are the collabs virtual or in person?

This will depend on the type of your collab. If you arranged to perform an activity that can be done remotely, such as a promotional post, your collab can be virtual. If you agreed to create content together, such as a video or an appearance at an event, you will need to meet in person.

Where should a collab take place?

For an in-person collab, you and your OnlyFans collab partner should agree on where you would like to collab. It can be your or your partner's home, a hotel, or any other location. We recommend to always meet in a public place first.

Do I need an OnlyFans account to collab?

No. Some content creators are specifically looking for other creators with OnlyFans or similar account to collab with. However, many other creators, especially female, often prefer a male partner without an OnlyFans account for content collabs, because they don't want their content to be sold on other channels.

Do I need any experience to collab?

If you are a guy, most female content creators prefer to collab with male partners who have some knowledge and/or experience in content creation. It will be useful for you to know how to use a camera or have someone who can film. They will also expect you to be able to perform in front of camera and have good stamina.

How Do I Get a Blue Checkmark?

We mark verified spicy content creators with a blue checkmark shown on their profile page. To get verified, go to your CollabDates profile and add links to your pages on OnlyFans, PornHub, or similar sites that feature spicy content that you have created. We will review your account and add the checkmark.

Why Is Your Service not 100% Free?

We do not sell ads, so we ask our users to pay a small membership fee to access premium features, such as advanced search filters. These funds are spent on maintaining this site and on promotional efforts. We invest a lot in marketing to attract more hot content creators for you to collab with.

Can I send messages with the free plan?

We implemented the "women go first" approach pioneered by Whitney Wolfe. If you are a guy and have a free plan, you can only respond to messages but cannot initiate conversations. So, you have to wait till girls contact you. If you are a girl with the free plan or a guy with premium membership, you can initiate unlimited conversations with other members.

Why can't I initiate conversations with the free plan?

Our female members expressed that they prefer not to be contacted by guys who "don't have any money" or "can't figure out how to pay," because most likely they will not be a serious collab partner. They will most likely not want to pay for the STD test and not have access to a place where to collab (or not want to pay for a hotel).

Why can't I use all search filters with the free plan?

Since anyone can be contacted via social media, in addition to not being able to initiate conversations via CollabDates, guys who didn't pay for premium membership have limited access to search features, specifically to the location filter. You have an option to purchase premium membership to get access to all search features.

How do I receive new message notifications?

There are two ways to receive new message notifications (other than logging in and checking them on our website). First, if you have a new message, and you haven't seen it for 24 hours, you will receive an automated email. Second, if you connected Telegram Messenger, we send all new message notifications to you via our Telegram bot.

How do you protect my privacy?

Our Terms of Use have a very strict confidentiality policy. The users are not allowed to disclose publicly the real name of the person with whom they collabed. You are encouraged to use a stage name. In addition, we keep all model and client data on our servers secured with the latest technologies.

Do you have users in my geographical area?

We accept members worldwide. However, if your collab is in person, and you selected a partner who lives far away, you may have to travel to meet with your collab partner or arrange for your partner to travel to you.

Is your site real, are member profiles real?

Yes! And, please stop asking😊. Our members are real people. In fact, you can meet many of them in person at one of our collab mixers or other adult industry events, such as XBiz, AVN Awards, and others. If you do see a profile that appears fake, please hit the Report button, and we will investigate immediately.

* The participants must be of the age of consent. Other restrictions may apply. See the Terms of Use for details.